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Changing Your Life For The Better

“Perhaps you’ve tried everything to achieve your goals but all has failed and you’re stuck feeling discouraged and wondering where it all went wrong.”

Anybody who has ever been successful will tell you that they have failed many times, “winners aren’t people who never fail, but are people who never quit.”

The best way to move forward and be successful is to acknowledge any mistakes you’ve made and have the wisdom to apply what you’ve learnt in your future. And pushing through, doing the hard work, whilst sacrificing the immediate pleasures for the exchange of longterm respect and success. So you can bring fourth into fruition all your dreams and desires.

Try to also remember it’s a journey and it’s important to try and enjoy your journey while you get to your destination.

I know sometimes it’s extremely difficult to enjoy anything when you’re having such a hard time but I always told myself during those times “I may not be where I want to be but I thank God I’m not where I used to be.”

It always helps knowing how far you’ve come and it encourages you to keep going despite however many times you feel like you have failed.

I’ve made considerable changes in my life more times than I can count. And whether I was changing my perspective, career, or the country I lived in, I learned one thing over and over again: To truly change my life I first needed to change myself.

Easier said than done, right?

Still, whether you want to get motivated, become your own boss, or y’know, move to Italy, learn Italian, fall in love, and open a restaurant, this is the guide for you.

Embrace time and let go of anything that doesn’t serve you

We spend so much of our life forming attachments to things, people, places, thoughts and emotions that our lives become overburdened with trivial things that really do not matter.

Suffering stems from holding onto that which do not serve us — yet in a strange way, it seems comforting and familiar to hold onto these things for fear they will not be replaced or will be gone from our lives if we let go.

The truth of the matter is, the space will be filled when you make a conscious decision to let go of that which does not serve you.

Letting go of things that do not serve you is as simple as dropping the thoughts, the emotion or circumstance that takes up residency within you.

There is another way of looking at it, much like the toys you used to play with when you were a child. As an adult they no longer serve you the same way as they did when you were a child.

Focus and eliminate

Focus on the important things in your life and eliminate everything else, this is a good strategy to use when you want to stay in control and simplify your life. It will help you build the life you want and reduce anxiety. Always be ambitious and aim high, if you’re not where you want to be in your life right now then just keep believing and keep fighting to get there and you will get there.

Positive thinking and working on yourself

Nurture your mind with positive thoughts, positive thinking is a key element to success. Do what you have to do everyday to stay positive!

Your thoughts will form your reality, “what you think Is what you’ll become,” it’s that simple. Take the time to work on yourself, understand you have weaknesses and be truthful with yourself about what they are and work on them.

This is the only way to move forward in the direction of success, the sad thing is most of us are our own enemy and have hindrances that hold us back. I am a strong believer in change because I am living proof that it’s possible as I have grown as a person and have changed for the better.

Anyone can change with the right kind of attitude, persistence and belief, if they really want to and they take the necessary steps into doing so without giving up.

The first thing to know about positive thinking is that it doesn’t mean that you ignore facts or logic or force yourself to have only positive emotions. That’s not realistic.

Positive thinking means that you approach negative news or stressful situations with a positive outlook. You’re able to look beyond the crisis or setback rather than being consumed by it.

You may have to acknowledge and process the negative aspects, but you understand that you will get through it. You know that bad news doesn’t mean the entire world is bad or that you will never experience goodness again. 

A positive thinker assumes best intentions from others and interprets actions more favourably rather than jumping to negative thoughts and assuming the worst. A positive thinker can visualize good outcomes. 

Emotions

The most common emotion we all possess is fear and we all need to understand that it’s only an emotion and it only has power if you give into it. I always say “do it afraid” it’s ok to be scared just don’t let that hold you back from reaching your potential and going after your dreams.

We cannot live our life based on how we always feel otherwise we’ll never be successful or happy with anything and especially because our emotions are flaky! and cant always be dependable on. The point is our emotions should not rule our world nor should we give them complete power and control over us so get out there and live your life! crush those emotions and absorb every aspect of life’s goodness everyday.

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